What should I do?I'm so confused.?

Answers:1   |   LastUpdateAt:2012-10-01 12:41:02  

marcy richter
Asked at 2012-10-01 10:18:06
Hello, MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I met a guy through an online dating site. I just started using it out of curiosity, and certainly not someone I expected. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus However, I met a very sweet and sensitive guy, who seems to be my other half. MedlinePlus It is shocking to compare the similarities between the two. When I'm sad, he says the right things to encourage me. He will devote hours to help me, and I'm happy doing the same. I do my best to make you laugh or think about solutions to their problems. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus We've been talking for 5 months almost every day for a few hours. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Similarities / Pros:
MedlinePlus We both have big dreams for the future. MedlinePlus Both come from environments that allow us to wait until after marriage. (Yes, they are virgins.) MedlinePlus There is no denying the chemistry between us. MedlinePlus (I have wanted to talk and spend time with him.) We talked for hours, even after 10 hours one Sat MedlinePlus Both are attractive even to land and disciplined. (However, I have not showing a picture of me in 5 months! Yes, I am very careful with things.'ve Just described how I look. And yes, I have been completely honest. I mean all he knows I could actually be lying teeth off! amazing thing is that now says he does not care .... What does that say? waits patiently Who? This is another feature added to it.)
MedlinePlus I tried also to make a fake online profile. (I know it's wrong, but I had to know.) He has not bothered to respond. He says that all he wants to do is talk to me. And, since he did not bite,
I know it's honest to that degree. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I tried to take a break from it many times, and each time it seemed very upset. MedlinePlus In the end, I can not. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I do not trust people so easily from what I've seen it grow. And so, for the most part I've been focusing on my career and education. But somehow, I was attracted to him. I've never met a man like him. It is sporty and sweet. He is intelligent and well read yet silly and ridiculous. It's strong but vulnerable. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I know I'm falling for him completely. I think about him all day. And he says he's in love with me. (I've never used the word love just because I'm not so sure about the word cementing. But yes, I think I might be in love.) He says that when you have a bad day, I speak only makes it better, I've come to be very important to your life, and that, if we were together, we would be one. We talked about how we would raise our children and where we were going to build our house. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus The problem: MedlinePlus He has a degree in psychology and is a self-proclaimed master manipulator. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Our families can not get along. (I am very close to my family, but have sacrificed a lot for me From their perspective, it would be a guy who wants to me, though I love his personality and his heart, but he comes from a different background .. (social , culturally and religiously), it is not clear about what you want to do in life, and has a steady job yet.) His family do not like for religious reasons, as they are so dogmatic. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus This is my first relationship. Sometimes I ask myself and doubt. How I can I, a novice in the dating scene, find someone so quickly and with such little experience? Sometimes I wonder if it's a coincidence that just are not thinking through or think they are being too idealistic. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I have not allowed us to be an official couple, because I really want to be honest with our families. I would hate to let this go further and then I disagree. Also, you can not get to my family, as it has no career to speak of. He is thinking about going to law school. He said it'll take the same tests this summer. His dream is real, but to be an actor. I do not want him to chose a career because he is afraid of losing me. You may lose me anyway. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I'm so confused. Shit I feel him waiting. I hate to think that is investing all his time with me, and he could not even get into the final. He says he does not care, that I was worth the wait, you do not want to finish what I have on doubt, never regret anything. MedlinePlus But I feel like I could hurt him and I broke. Am I driving? I mean you no harm. The only good thing is that it has lost and alone for a while and needs someone. If I could help you through this time, maybe not so bad for him? If that is the least I can do, then maybe you can face feel like a bad person / selfish. I just want you to be happy. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus We've talked about this many times. I've been completely honest with him about everything I think. Nothing I write here would be new to him. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I'm asking for advice. What should I do? MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Thanks for letting me ramble ... :)
Answer1:そ -Answered at 2012-10-01 12:41:02
Dn't let life discourage you , everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was.
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